60 Shoe Game questions for the hens or the wedding.
In the Shoe Game, the bride holds one of her shoes and one of her partner’s. For each “Who’s more likely…” question, she raises the shoe of whoever it fits. Classic at weddings, and brilliant at a hens when you collect the partner’s answers beforehand and reveal them on the night.
Updated 2 October 2026 · By Hens Party HQ
60 Shoe Game questions
- Who’s the better driver?
- Who’s messier?
- Who’s more likely to get lost in IKEA?
- Who takes longer to get ready?
- Who’s the better cook?
- Who’s more likely to get lost?
- Who spends more money?
- Who falls asleep first?
- Who’s more stubborn?
- Who’s the bigger romantic?
- Who apologises first?
- Who hogs the doona?
- Who’s funnier?
- Who’s the better dancer?
- Who’s the bigger flirt?
- Who’s more organised?
- Who’s more likely to plan a surprise?
- Who has the worse taste in music?
- Who’s more competitive?
- Who takes better photos?
- Who’s louder when they laugh?
- Who would survive a zombie apocalypse?
- Who’s the better kisser?
- Who’s more likely to cry at a movie?
- Who’s the bigger foodie?
- Who’s the early riser?
- Who controls the TV remote?
- Who leaves dishes in the sink?
- Who’s more likely to be late?
- Who spends longer on their phone?
- Who’s the better singer?
- Who’s more adventurous?
- Who’s the bigger shopper?
- Who’s more likely to forget an anniversary?
- Who gets hangry first?
- Who’s the better gift-giver?
- Who planned the first date?
- Who’s more likely to start a fight about directions?
- Who’s more patient?
- Who will be the stricter parent?
- Who’s more likely to adopt a pet without asking?
- Who’s the night owl?
- Who snores louder?
- Who’s cleaner in the bathroom?
- Who wanted the bigger wedding?
- Who cried first during the proposal?
- Who’s more likely to burn dinner?
- Who’s more likely to sing in the shower?
- Who would win at trivia?
- Who’s more likely to win a dance-off?
- Who’s more ticklish?
- Who’s the better listener?
- Who’s more likely to get a tattoo?
- Who has more clothes?
- Who’s the bigger kid at heart?
- Who’s more likely to say sorry first?
- Who would win in an arm wrestle?
- Who loves who more?
- Who’s more excited for the wedding?
- Who will be first on the dance floor at the wedding?
How to play at a hens (when the partner isn’t there)
- Before the hens, send her partner 10–15 questions and ask who they’d pick for each.
- On the night, sit the bride in a chair with one of her shoes and one of her partner’s.
- Read each question. She raises a shoe.
- Reveal her partner’s answer. If they don’t match, she takes a forfeit.
- Save the best for last: “Who loves who more?”
Questions
How many questions should the Shoe Game have?
10 to 15 is ideal at a hens, and 8 to 12 at a wedding reception so it doesn’t slow the night down.